Finally Make a Decision
About Your Marriage

A Focused 6-Week Intensive to Take You From Stuck and Spinning…
to Clear, Confident, and Moving Forward

Get Clear On What’s Next For Your Marriage

(Even If You’ve Been Disconnected For Decades)

Hello Luv,

I'm going to give you the loving truth right now…

You've been going back and forth about your marriage for months. Maybe years.

Some days, you're ready to leave. Other days, something pulls you back — the kids, the history, the fear of what comes next. And then there are the days where you just feel numb… too exhausted to think about it at all.

You've read the books. You've Googled "signs you should get divorced" at 2am. Maybe you've sat through months of couples counseling that felt like expensive venting sessions that got you nowhere.

And still… you don't have an answer.

You're not lazy. You're not weak. You're not even confused — not really.

Here's the rub… No one ever taught you how to make a decision like this one. A decision where there is no clear "right" answer. A decision that will change everything about your life as you know it.

So instead of deciding, you keep circling. Thinking about it. Talking about it. Losing sleep over it.

And the longer you stay in limbo, the heavier it gets.

That ends here.

If you're done spinning your wheels and ready to finally get to your answer — with real tools, real guidance, and a clear timeline — then this 6-week intensive was built for you.

If you’re the woman who’s an expert at making everyone else happy (your kids, family, friends, neighbors)...

But when it comes to finding your own happiness in the face of a struggling marriage, you feel completely lost, hopeless, and stuck…

This will be the most important letter you’ll ever read.

Please Read This First:

I'll be direct with you. This isn't for everyone.

If you're looking for someone to tell you what to do… this isn't it.

If you're hoping I'll say your marriage is fine and everything will magically work itself out… this isn't the place for that either.

And if you want to keep thinking about making a change without actually doing anything different… I'm going to lovingly tell you that you'll be in the exact same spot six months from now.

The Decision Intensive is not a done-for-you service. It will give you powerful tools, deep insights, and real support — but only you can do the work to get your answer.

This Intensive Is For You If You're…

DONE WITH LIMBO:

You've spent long enough going back and forth. You're ready to stop circling and start moving — in one direction or the other.

WILLING TO LOOK WITHIN:

You know this isn't just about what he's doing or not doing. You're open to seeing your own patterns and making changes within yourself.

READY TO FEEL SOMETHING DIFFERENT:

You're craving clarity, confidence, and peace — and you refuse to spend another year waiting for those to show up on their own.

NOT LOOKING FOR A MAGIC PILL:

You understand that a decision this significant requires real work — and you're willing to show up for yourself fully for six weeks.

If that sounds like you… keep reading. This could change everything.

Introducing The Decision Intensive

Get to Your Stay-or-Go Answer in 6 Focused Weeks.

This isn't a monthly membership you dip in and out of.

This isn't another online course full of content you'll never finish.

And this definitely isn't therapy, where you rehash the same stories week after week with no clear end in sight.

The Decision Intensive is a structured, guided, 6-week experience designed to move you from confusion to clarity — on a real timeline.

It's built on my proprietary Decision Process®, the same framework I've used with thousands of women over the past decade to help them finally make a decision they can trust about their marriage.

Here's what makes this different: you won't just learn — you'll decide.

Every tool, every teaching, every conversation inside this intensive has one purpose: to get you to your answer. Not my answer. Not your mother's answer. Not what the internet thinks you should do.

Your answer. The one you can move forward with — without regret.

Here's What's Inside The Decision Intensive

A Proven, Step-by-Step Decision Process®

Over six weeks, you'll move through my proprietary framework — the same process that has helped thousands of women go from stuck and spinning to clear and confident. The content is delivered to you week by week, so you stay focused and on track (no overwhelming content library to get lost in).

6 Live Calls

You won't be doing this alone. For 6 weeks, each week includes live group calls — teaching, coaching, and Q&A — where you can ask your unique questions, get real-time guidance, and learn alongside other women navigating the same crossroads.

An Onboarding Call to Get You Started

From day one, you'll have a clear path forward. Your onboarding call will make sure you know exactly where to begin and how to move through the intensive for maximum impact.

The Difficult Conversations Tool

One of the biggest things keeping you stuck? Not knowing how to say what you need to say to your spouse about your marriage. This tool helps you navigate the conversations you've been avoiding with more clarity and less fear.

Ask Shay — Your AI Support Tool

Between live calls and coaching sessions, questions will come up. Ask Shay gives you on-demand guidance rooted in the principles of The Decision Process®, so you're never left without support when you need it most.

A Private Community of Women Who Get It

You don't have to carry this alone anymore. Inside our members-only community, you'll find other women who understand exactly what you're going through — plus support from our community coaches to keep you moving forward between calls.

The Clarity Guarantee

Here's my promise to you: If you move through The Decision Intensive and don’t feel meaningfully more clear and don't feel meaningfully more clear about your next best steps, just email us. We'll get you on a 1-on-1 clarity call with one of our expert relationship coaches — at no cost. No hoops. No pressure. No proving anything. Your only job is to show up for yourself. Our job is to make sure you have the clarity you came for.

We stand behind this work because it works.

The Decision Intensive Is Designed for Any Woman at a Crossroads in Her Marriage

Wherever you are right now, this process will meet you there:

Leaning toward staying — but you're not sure it can actually change. You want to give your marriage a real chance to evolve. But you need to know if it's even possible before you invest more years into something that isn't working. This intensive will help you see clearly whether the marriage can become what you need it to be — or whether you've been holding onto hope that's no longer grounded in reality.

Leaning toward leaving — but paralyzed by fear. You may already sense your answer… but actually doing something about it feels terrifying. The fear of regret, the guilt, the unknowns — they keep you frozen. This intensive will give you the confidence and clarity to move forward in a way you can be proud of.

Navigating an affair — yours or theirs. Betrayal makes everything more confusing, more painful, and more urgent. Whether you're the one who strayed or you're on the other side of it, this intensive will help you untangle the emotional chaos and make a grounded decision about what comes next — for yourself and your family.

This Is About More Than Making a Decision

There was never a class in school about sustaining a loving and connected marriage over the course of decades, was there?

No one taught you how to keep intimacy alive past the 10-year mark. No one showed you how to communicate what you actually need without starting a fight. And no one prepared you for the loneliness that comes from lying next to someone every night and feeling completely invisible.

So here you are… 15, 20, maybe 25+ years in. The kids are older (or already gone). And for the first time, you're looking at your marriage without the buffer of busy schedules and school events and bedtime routines — and you may not like what you see.

Maybe you’ve told yourself to “Suck it up. He’s a good guy. You should be happy."

Maybe you wonder if you're being selfish for wanting more than a roommate and a co-parent.

And maybe — if you're being really honest — you've been quietly wondering if this is all there is for the next 20, 30, 40 years.

Here's the truth…

No, you're not selfish. Quite the opposite, in fact.

You've spent years — maybe decades — pouring into everyone around you. Your kids. Your spouse. Your job. Your friends. Your parents. And somewhere along the way, you stopped pouring into yourself.

You may know how you want to feel… but you don't know how to get there. You may realize you're unhappy… but you're not sure what's even possible at this point.

And so you stay stuck. Paralyzed. Believing you'll never feel seen, desired, and loved the way you long for.

This is exactly what The Decision Intensive is here to change.

Not in six months. Not in a year. In six focused weeks.

Here's What Changes When You Stop Circling and Start Moving

When you commit to this 6-week process, something shifts — often faster than you'd expect.

You'll finally understand what's actually driving your indecision — the fears, the patterns, the stories you've been telling yourself — so you can stop being held hostage by them.

You'll gain the confidence to trust yourself again. To know that whatever you decide, you can handle what comes next.

You'll stop looking to everyone else for answers and start listening to the one voice that matters most: your own.

And whether your answer is to stay and create something new with your spouse… or to lovingly release the marriage and step into the next chapter of your life… you'll do it with clarity. With confidence. And without the weight of regret.

Clarity is possible — even if you've felt lost and stuck for years.

This confusing, paralyzing chapter of your life has an end date. Let's make it six weeks from now.

Choose the Path That's Right for You

THE DECISION INTENSIVE

For women ready to get clear and get moving.

$1,499

(or 2 payments of $849)

Everything you need to arrive at a stay-or-go decision you can trust:

The complete 6-week Decision Process® — proven, step-by-step guidance from confusion to clarity

Weekly live group calls each month (teaching, coaching, and Q&A)

Onboarding call to get you started on the right path from Day 1

The Difficult Conversations Tool

Ask Shay AI support tool for guidance between sessions

Access to our Private Members-Only Community

The Clarity Guarantee — if you're not clearer in 30 days, we'll get you a free 1-on-1 clarity call

Women Just Like You Are Already Getting Results…

"I am so grateful for everything I have learned in this program. It has been a huge blessing in my life. I will never forget the hope Sharon gave me when I felt like I couldn't make it another day. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. You have a gift."

— Dana

"This program is magnificent! I feel supported and nurtured every step of the way. So much helpful information at my fingertips!"

— Charles

You Won't Be Doing This Alone

One of the reasons women stay stuck for so long is that they're trying to figure this out by themselves. Late at night. In their own heads. Going around and around the same thoughts with no one to guide them forward.

Inside The Decision Intensive, you have live access to real support — every single week.

This is where you can bring the questions that have been keeping you up at night. The situations you don't know how to navigate. The fears you haven't said out loud yet.

And as new challenges come up (which, of course, they will — life just keeps life-ing), you'll always have someone to help guide you to the next step.

You don't have to carry this alone anymore.

Read This Before You Join…

I want to be honest with you about something.

Relationships are complicated. You didn't get to this place of struggle overnight, and I won't pretend that clarity shows up the moment you press a button.

I imagine that how you feel about your marriage depends on the day. Some days things feel manageable — maybe even okay. And then there are days where the loneliness or frustration hits so hard you can barely breathe.

Here's what I know after working with thousands of women in this exact place: six weeks is enough time to change everything — if you're willing to show up fully.

This isn't about being perfect. It's not about having all the answers on Day 1. It's about committing to yourself — maybe for the first time in a long time — and trusting the process.

I created this intensive to be focused and contained for a reason. You don't need years of therapy to get to clarity. You need the right tools, the right guidance, and a timeline that actually creates momentum.

Six weeks. That's what I'm asking of you. Six weeks of showing up for your own life.

And at the end of it, you'll either be stepping into a new chapter of your marriage — or a new chapter of your life. Either way, you'll be moving forward.

PLUS, Get A Special Bonus If You Join Today!

If you join The Decision membership program right now, you get access to the LOWEST monthly payment, plus…

Bonus #1: You’ll get an extra small group live call with Sharon

This is an intimate opportunity to ask me your unique marriage questions and learn, bond, and grow with like-minded women on the same journey as you.

This Is Your Moment

I know what it feels like to tell yourself you'll "deal with it later."

Later, when the kids are settled. Later, when things calm down at work. Later, when you feel more ready.

But here's the cold, hard truth…

The longer your relationship challenges go unresolved, the more resentments mount, distances grow, and hurts deepen. Later doesn't come. It just turns into more years of the same pain.

And the cost of staying stuck? It's not just emotional. It's your energy. Your health. Your confidence. Your connection to yourself.

You've already spent enough time thinking about this. Now it's time to do something about it.

Six weeks from now, you could have the clarity and peace of mind you've been craving. Or you could still be lying awake at 2am, wondering what to do.

The choice is yours.

Doors close on Wednesday, February 25th at Midnight Pacific Time.

I’m also throwing in a special bonus to help you find your way to a decision even faster.

You’ll get free copies of 3 of my best relationship books (one of them pre-release!).

STAY OR GO

This is my bestselling book of all time! If you’re questioning whether you can recover the feelings you’ve lost for your spouse and you’re serious about putting an end to feeling stuck, lost, and alone, this is the book for you. Thousands of women have already used the approach inside to find the confidence and clarity they needed to either fix their marriages or move forward without regret.

LEARNING TO LOVE

This is my bestselling book of all time! If you’re questioning whether you can recover the feelings you’ve lost for your spouse and you’re serious about putting an end to feeling stuck, lost, and alone, this is the book for you. Thousands of women have already used the approach inside to find the confidence and clarity they needed to either fix their marriages or move forward without regret.

THE MIDLIFE MARRIAGE

No one prepares us for marriage past the honeymoon phase - and certainly not past the 20-year mark. In this book, I’ll walk you through how to navigate a neglected marriage, how to rethink your relationship in the “empty nester” phase, what to expect when menopause comes into play (it has a MUCH bigger impact than most people think!), and more. (This is my NEWEST book!)

But if you join today, you’ll get a FREE Mindset Bundle to help you stay focused, motivated, and supported on your journey.

It includes:

Journal prompts (get inspiration for writing out your feelings, opening yourself to personal epiphanies, and re-centering yourself daily)

Sharon Pope screensavers & phone wallpapers (so you can be constantly reminded of what you’re working toward and keep your eyes on the light at the end of the tunnel)

Coloring pages (use this therapeutic activity to relax and re-engage with your goals)

Your Questions, Answered

Q: Is this program only for women?

A: The intensive is designed with women in mind — but anyone who's struggling with a stay-or-go decision in their marriage can benefit. My examples and coaching often come from a woman's perspective, but the tools are not gender-specific and apply to everyone.

Q: What if I've already tried therapy and it didn't work?

A: Most therapy focuses on talking about the problem and how you got here. This intensive is focused on making a decision and moving forward. Women consistently tell me they've made more progress in weeks here than in months (even years) of therapy.

Q: What if I think I already know my answer?

A: If you knew with certainty, you wouldn't still be searching. There's a reason you haven't acted on it yet — and The Decision Intensive will either cement your answer and give you the tools to move forward, or it will show you something you haven't considered yet. Either way, you'll stop spinning.

Q: Will this fix my marriage?

A: This program isn't designed to "fix" your marriage — and here's the truth: not every marriage should be saved. What it will do is give you the clarity to know whether your marriage has the potential to evolve into something that feels good… or whether it's time to release it. The right answer is the one that's true for you.

Q: What if I can't afford it?

A: I understand this is a real investment. That’s intentional. Consider this: the average cost of divorce in the U.S. is over $10,000 — and that's just the legal fees. The cost of staying stuck — in stress, health impacts, lost years — is even higher. This intensive is a fraction of either of those, and it gives you something neither of them will: clarity before you act.

Q: What if my situation is unique?

A: Your relationship is unique. Your challenges may not be. I've worked with thousands of women navigating affairs, emotional disconnection, sexless marriages, blended families, empty nest transitions, and more. The tools inside this intensive are designed to work across all of these situations. The only relationship challenges this program does not address are clinical depression, active addiction, or physical abuse — those require specialized professional support.

Q: Can I cancel or get a refund?

A: Because of the intensive nature of this program and the immediate access to all tools and support, we do not offer refunds. However, we do offer the Clarity Guarantee — if you don't feel significantly more clear within your first 3 weeks, we'll schedule a complimentary 1-on-1 clarity session with a member of our coaching team.

Q: What happens after the 6 weeks?

A: The Decision Intensive is Phase 1 of a 3-phase journey. Most women naturally progress into Phase 2 — either Marriage 2.0 (for those who choose to stay and rebuild) or Divorce Differently (for those who choose to move forward). You'll hear more about these options as you near the end of your intensive. There's no pressure — just a clear next step when you're ready.

Okay, Luv. I appreciate you taking the time to read this.

Whatever you decide about joining, please know this: you deserve clarity. You deserve to stop carrying this weight alone. And you deserve to feel like yourself again.

We've got you!

Much love,

P.S. If you're like me and skip to the end of these letters, here's what you need to know:

The Decision Intensive is a focused, 6-week program designed to help you finally make a decision about your marriage — once and for all.

In six weeks, you'll move through my proven Decision Process® with live coaching, real tools, community support, and a clear timeline. No more circling. No more spinning around in indecision. No more lying awake at night. No more "maybe next year." Just clarity.

Here's what you get:

The complete 6-week Decision Process®
6 live group calls (teaching, coaching, Q&A)
Onboarding call to get started immediately
The Difficult Conversations Tool
Ask Shay AI support between sessions
Private members-only community
The Clarity Guarantee

Investment: $1,499 (or 2 payments of $849)

Whether you decide to stay and rebuild or lovingly release your marriage, you'll do it with confidence, clarity, and no regrets.

Doors Close Wednesday, February 25th at Midnight Pacific Time

Finally Make a Decision About Your Marriage