If you’re questioning whether you can recover the feelings you’ve lost for your husband, and you’re serious about putting an end to feeling stuck, lost and alone… this is the most important letter you’ll ever read.
Most women are living with a perfectly “fine” marriage. At least it looks that way to everyone on the outside… inside the relationship, it just feels lonely.
There’s little-to-no passion or spark, you’re living like roommates, life feels as if it’s speeding by and while deep down you’re craving a loving and connected relationship, the thought of actually leaving to find that with someone new is paralyzing.
In many cases, with a few minor shifts, it might be possible to turn around your existing relationship and transform it into one that fulfills you and avoids the pain and heartache of divorce...
AND...it’s also possible to lovingly release your marriage and start fresh with a clear vision for what you want without anger, resentment or regret.
Things CAN be different...and here’s why I know that to be true, even for you and your marriage…
Let’s set aside the fact that I’ve personally helped hundreds of women transform their broken relationships that seemed beyond repair, into connected, fulfilling marriages by using the tools I teach.
Through the process of doing that, one glaring reality became painfully obvious…
Everything they had tried prior to us working together were things they already knew how to try!
Most of which was based on what they saw at home as a child which created an image of what love and marriage “is supposed” to look like.
Or how to create intimacy...or communicate effectively...or argue productively...right?!
Yet, these are crucial elements to a healthy, fulfilling relationship over the long term.
The truth is...up to this point, you haven’t had the proper tools to fix your relationship...if it can be fixed.
So with that said, you don’t have to make any major decisions right now...or anytime soon.
You just need to decide that you’re ready to discover what’s truly possible for your life and your marriage.
The one thing that you don't realize is getting in the way of having the marriage your heart longs for.
How to know whether or not your marriage can evolve to a new place where it feels good for BOTH of you.
Why you're having the same arguments repeatedly and how to interrupt those painful patterns of engagement.
How to identify the windows of opportunity inside your marriage and how you - and you alone - can create the change you're wanting.
The ten cold, hard truths that will completely change the way you see and engage in relationships.
How to improve your communication style so that you can be heard, understood, and get your needs met.
Why boundaries are actually a critical ingredient in your marriage and how to set them.
Why intimacy is such a challenge in our marriage and what's needed for intimacy to grow.
If you've forgotten how to talk to one another - and it's easier to avoid those difficult conversations - you'll learn how to do that with greater ease.
Learn how to ensure that love is present whether you choose to stay and make the marriage work or lovingly release the relationship.
What to do when you have love for him...but aren’t in love with him. Page 22
What you should do if “he needs to change” but seems to be fine with mediocrity. Page 15
The real cause of the shift from wedded bliss to loneliness. Page 19
The most important thing you need to do now so you don’t remain stuck in indecision. Page 54
Why it’s CRITICAL you choose wisely with whom you discuss your struggling marriage and why the wrong choice can end a marriage worth saving. Page 199
The ONE single insight that - if you can wrap your mind around it - will show you why you’re struggling to love your husband. Page 109
Why up to 74% of marriages are failing right now and what to do about it for your own life so you’re not just another statistic. Page 90
The single biggest thing that keeps women stuck in indecision and how to overcome it. Page 54
How to identify what’s not working in the relationship that is actually working for you. Page 35
How to interrupt the same recurring painful patterns and why nothing ever seems to get resolved. Page 37
Five specific tips to give your marriage any hope of feeling good again that you can implement in your marriage starting today. Page 40
How to know if hope actually exists for your struggling marriage or if it is beyond recovery. Page 48
The very first thing you should do if and when you realize the marriage is over. Page 55
You have to choose between “happiness” and staying together, right? Wrong! How to pave the path to happiness inside your marriage if that’s what you want. Page 25
And so much more...
There is no catch